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| Honest in Front of God |
Outside, autumn had set the hills on fire. Maple leaves flashed copper and gold, skittering across the windshield when the wind rose. A rustic sign—Haven Ridge Retreat Center—leaned slightly, as if it, too, had weathered a few storms. Somewhere beyond the trees, a chapel bell rang once, then again, its sound thin and distant, like a call they weren’t sure they deserved to answer.
Monika swallowed. She hadn’t wanted to come. Neither had he. Yet here they were, rolling to a stop in front of a lodge with smoke curling from a stone chimney. Hope was a small thing—no bigger than the bell’s echo—but it had brought them this far.
It hadn’t always been like this. In the beginning, they’d laughed easily, prayed without self-consciousness, made plans that felt as solid as the vows they’d spoken. Then the years began to stack up—doctor visits, careful calendars, well-meaning questions from family. Each month that ended the same way carved a little more space between them. Monika carried the ache like a secret bruise. Less than, she told herself. Not just disappointed—defective. Nathaniel watched her fold inward and didn’t know how to reach her without making it worse, so he said less and less, until his silence sounded like agreement with her worst fears.
Their pastor, Reverend Ellis, had been gentle. “Sometimes you need a place to listen again,” he’d said, sliding a brochure across his desk. A marriage retreat. Monika had almost laughed at the idea. But the night they finally admitted they were living like roommates, not husband and wife, the laughter wouldn’t come. “Maybe we should take a break,” she’d whispered, and Nathaniel had nodded, eyes wet, as if he’d been holding his breath for permission to stop trying and start hurting.
The first evening alone in the house, the quiet was so hollow it rang. Monika stood in the kitchen and realized she missed even his silence.
The first session was in a timber-framed room that smelled faintly of coffee and pine cleaner. Couples sat in a loose circle, knees angled toward each other, some holding hands as naturally as breathing. Monika kept her hands tucked under her sweater sleeves. Nathaniel’s knee bounced once, then stilled when he noticed her watching.
The retreat leader, a gray-haired woman named Carol, smiled as if she’d seen every kind of brokenness and wasn’t afraid of any of it. “We’re not here to perform,” she said. “We’re here to be real.” She asked each couple to share one honest thing they’d been afraid to say out loud.
One man cleared his throat. “I’m afraid you’ll never forgive me,” he told his wife, voice shaking. A woman across the circle admitted, “I’m scared I’ve stopped believing you’ll choose me.” Tears came quickly, but so did nods—understanding passing from face to face like a warm blanket.
Monika’s chest tightened. Her throat felt sealed. She could hear her own heartbeat, loud as the chapel bell had been. Nathaniel stared at the floor, jaw clenched, as if any word might be the wrong one.
Carol’s gaze softened when it reached them. “Sometimes healing begins with simply being honest in front of God—and each other,” she said, letting the sentence settle into the room.
The words echoed in Monika’s mind. Honest. In front of God. In front of him. Shame rose like heat in her cheeks. If I say it, it becomes true.
When the session ended, they walked back to their room side by side, their footsteps in the hallway the only conversation they could manage.
That evening, the lodge room felt too small for two people who didn’t know how to be close anymore. Monika unpacked slowly, folding sweaters into drawers that were already lined with crisp paper. Nathaniel hung his jacket in the closet, movements careful, quiet. The air smelled of cedar and the faint sweetness of the soap set by the sink.
When Monika unzipped the side pocket of her bag, her fingers brushed something hard and familiar. A small, worn journal—navy cover, corners frayed. She hadn’t seen it in years. Somehow it had ended up in her bag, tucked there without thought, like her hands had remembered what her heart tried to forget.
She sat on the edge of the bed and opened it. The first page held her younger handwriting, looping and hopeful: “Lord, thank You for Nathaniel. Help us love each other well.” Further in were lists of dreams—mission trips, a little house with a porch swing, children’s names written in the margins with hearts around them. There were prayers, too, and promises they’d made after arguments that ended in laughter and forgiveness.
Tears blurred the ink. She didn’t notice Nathaniel until the mattress dipped beside her. “What is that?” he asked softly.
“Our old journal,” she managed. Her voice sounded like it belonged to someone else.
He hesitated, then held out his hand. “Can I… read?”
They sat shoulder to shoulder, turning pages together. The words of their younger selves filled the room like a forgotten song. Monika’s breath hitched. “We used to pray together,” she whispered. “Every night.”
Nathaniel’s eyes shone. For the first time since they’d arrived, his hand stayed on hers, steady and warm—a small crack in the wall they’d built.
Sleep wouldn’t come. The room was dark except for a thin stripe of moonlight across the carpet. Monika lay on her back, listening to Nathaniel’s breathing, wondering if he was awake too or if she was alone with her thoughts the way she’d been for so long.
“Monika?” His voice was barely above a whisper.
She turned her head. “Yeah.”
Silence stretched, then he exhaled. “When Carol said that thing today… about healing starting with honesty… it won’t leave me alone.”
Monika’s throat tightened. “Me either.”
He shifted, facing her. In the dim light she could make out the outline of his face, the familiar slope of his nose, the tension in his brow. “I don’t know how to do this right,” he said. “But I don’t want to keep doing it wrong.”
The words loosened something in her chest, and suddenly the truth pressed up like water behind a dam. “I feel broken,” she said, the confession scraping on the way out. “Not just sad. Broken.”
Nathaniel didn’t interrupt. He waited, and that waiting—patient, present—made her brave enough to keep going.
“Every time someone announces a pregnancy, I smile and then I go to the bathroom and I hate myself,” she whispered. “I feel… less than. Like I’m not a real woman.” Her voice cracked. “And I know that sounds awful. I know it’s not what God says. But it’s what I hear in my head all the time.”
She swallowed hard. “I pushed you away because I thought you deserved better. Someone who could give you what you wanted. Someone who wasn’t… defective.”
Nathaniel’s breath caught. “Monika, no.” His hand found hers under the blanket, trembling. “I never—” He stopped, as if searching for words that wouldn’t bruise. “I didn’t know how to help you. I watched you hurting and I felt useless. And every time I tried to say something, it sounded small compared to what you were carrying.”
Tears slid into Monika’s hairline. “So you said nothing.”
He nodded, shame in the movement. “I thought I was protecting you by staying quiet,” he said, voice thick. “But I was just leaving you alone with your pain.”
Monika covered her mouth, a sob escaping anyway. Nathaniel’s eyes were wet too. “You are more than enough,” he said, the words urgent now, as if he needed her to hear them in her bones. “Your worth isn’t defined by childbearing. You’re my wife. You’re Monika. I chose you. I still choose you.”
For a long moment they just cried—grief for what they’d lost, relief at finally naming it. The honesty hurt, but it also felt like air returning to a room that had been sealed shut.
After the tears slowed, Nathaniel wiped his face with the back of his hand and gave a shaky laugh that wasn’t really laughter. “We’re a mess,” he murmured.
Monika managed a small, watery smile. “Yeah.”
He hesitated, then asked, “Can we pray? Like we used to?”
The question startled her. Prayer had become something she did alone, quickly, as if God might be tired of hearing the same ache. To pray with Nathaniel felt vulnerable in a different way—like opening a door she’d nailed shut.
Monika’s first instinct was to say no. But the journal’s pages flashed in her mind—two people who had once believed God could hold them together. She nodded, barely.
They slid out of bed and knelt beside it, the carpet rough under their knees. Nathaniel’s hand found hers, and their fingers laced, tentative at first, then firm. His voice shook. “Lord… we don’t know how to fix this. We’ve tried to be strong and we’ve just gotten tired.”
Monika swallowed and added, “Please meet us here. In the broken parts. Teach us how to be honest… and kind.”
They didn’t ask for a sudden miracle, only for grace—enough for the next step. In the quiet that followed, Monika felt something shift, subtle as a breath: not a cure, not an instant happy ending, but a steady sense that God was near, listening. For the first time in years, she didn’t feel like she was fighting alone. They were kneeling on the same side again.
Morning brought the smell of bacon and coffee drifting down the lodge hallway. At breakfast, Monika and Nathaniel chose a small table by the window. Sunlight spilled across the wood grain, turning the syrup in a glass pitcher amber. Without thinking too hard about it, Monika scooted her chair closer. Nathaniel’s hand reached across the table, and when their fingers met, neither of them pulled away.
Carol passed by with her mug and paused, her smile knowing but gentle—no pressure, just quiet encouragement. The weekend wasn’t over, and neither was their work. But the silence between them had changed; it wasn’t a wall anymore. It was space they could fill, one honest sentence at a time.
Back in their room, Monika opened the old journal again. Nathaniel picked up a pen from the nightstand and set it beside the page. “Let’s write in it together,” he said.
Monika nodded. A new chapter—not just of joy, but of healing, and hope that would keep showing up, steady as a bell calling them home.
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